Connected to All

So, it's been awhile, but I'm back. I'm moving to albuquerque in 3 days and so excited! So much has been going through my mind - trying to squeeze in all goodbyes.
Something clicked for me the other day. I've been thinking a lot about the way that we are tied to people telepathically. Once someone has been in our lives, we are different from that experience. They are too. It's like - how I can feel when past boyfriend is doing well - you know it. I can feel when he is not doing well. Now is made up of all of my experiences, so, the ones that I have had with all people are comprising my Now. I'm really getting stuck here. The other day it just so smoothly came out! Where are you? My friend was telling me about a past relationship she was in, and I was talking about how we cannot move on until the other person does too. When one person has not fully resolved a relationship, I believe that no matter how hard we try, we might be sooo ready to move on, but if that other person is not, we can't. If the experience is shared, it is the 2 of you (really the same) that are creating the experience. We live our lives after the experience differently than we would had we never had it. I picture an experience happening and the emotional reaction creating a string between the 2 or more people that experienced it together. We go through our lives, we may move or do whatever, but these strings will not be disconnected. The shared experience is affecting the future experiences of the these people and all people that they share more experiences with. When negativity is not removed - holding on to the past - the person on the other end feels this as if it were their own. Although, the string is never disconnected, there comes a time when - hopefully - the negativity is removed = love, and we are no longer bound to this experience. What was hard becomes soft. We no longer react to the past, which takes us out of the now, of love, we blend this experience into our lives - smoothe.